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{Letters From Her} Breaking Out of Religion

Church hurt leaves the church HURT. Stop looking for God to appear in humans. Yes, He uses His children BUT they are NOT Him! Yes, you can have the anticipation of His love and mercy to be displayed from the church folk BUT how many people are in the church and not OF IT? YES, I went there!!!

LET’S BE REAL… ENOUGH WITH BEING RELIGIOUS!!!!!

 

So now all your hope and faith rests in the decision of fellow believers versus the ONE we ARE to believe IN.     

Sounds crazy right?    As crazy as it sounds, it happens EVERY single day!

 

Leaving the church because someone hurt their feelings or because someone didn’t acknowledge them. Folks don’t know how to receive the walk of their neighbor in the congregation. Being defensive of their emotions versus defending the faith. Quick to put on a lamp shade when placed in a dark area and even faster throwing shade when Godly correction is given.

If no one else tells you this let me go on record and say…

Your pastor is NOT God.

Your neighbor that sits next to you is NOT God.

The nurse, worship leader, First Lady, Deacon, server, usher nor is the greeter is God.

You dun held their words and opinions to such a standard that now you’re mad at God because YOU indirectly and unknowingly made these ”church folk” an idol. Now if it’s ONE thing we all know about God is that He is a VERY jealous God! He does NOT like when we put things above Him nor does He like when we place opinions of others over the facts that He provided. Stop holding them accountable for the growth of YOUR relationship with God.

“The church” can’t heal you!!!!! Stop using Sunday Service and fellowship as band-aids. The wound can ONLY be healed when it is exposed to what it cannot see… only feel (air). Allow God to be the only one you have the expectation of healing from. Let Him be the air. Do not depend on a hug from the greeter or a complement from the most virtuous woman in the church. THEY ARE NOTHING BUT HUMANS.

FULLY rely on Christ and watch as He grants you EVERYTHING you could possibly desire.

 

Go to church empty BUT with the expectation of being filled ONLY by God. You don’t need to be filled with processed revelations. Get to know God for YOURself.

 

   Be Easy and Remain Honest,
           Her

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{Christian Rant } Letters From “Her”

Take a moment and ask yourself… is this you?

Am I who I say I am or am I just wishing helplessly? Do I see the potential in the person I can become or am I becoming that person? Ladies my ladies, im going to get all in your face with this one… am I claiming to be a Proverbs 31 woman yet failing to read all the chapters prior to? Oh… did that hurt? Was that offensive??  Well good! A good friend of mine said a while ago that conviction brings forth correction. We all can use probing questions to gain a better understanding of our purpose and to have a clear view of what we’re attempting to achieve. The bible does state that without a plan the people will perish so if you’re unaware of your purpose and would like to work towards actually living a life vs. breathing to death check out…

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Okay but I’ve digressed.

All in all, we need to allow the words that come out our mouth reflect the lifestyle that we are living. We must offer what we require. So many of us what to have huge sparkly rings given to us by providing husbands with a ton of money yet we don’t want to cook, clean or gain an education for ourselves. As the founder of Christian Rant said himself, “tired won’t feed me”. Meaning your excuses won’t get the job done. We want a man to sponsor and fund our dreams and aspirations but we won’t even motivate him, support him or pour into his spirit when he’s empty. Seems like the only language that is spoken is nagging negativity and the favorite word being used is no. Now I know that the bible states that a WIFE is suppose to submit to her HUSBAND as he submits to Christ. Some of us are submitting to our boyfriends whose only idea of submission coincides with having sex. BUTTTTT that’s not why I’m here.

 

I want you all to take a moment and re-evaluate the individuals that you’re exposed to. What you have access to have a HUGE impact on who you become. The things that you accept begin to shape and mold your way of thinking and eventually the ideas you make. Today’s lesson, monitor the people you have pouring into your life. The impact they have is much greater than you think.

 

Be easy,

Her

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{Letters From Her} The Ideal Woman

               The Ideal Woman

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There is power in being a woman that prays. A woman who first has a relationship with Christ and loved ones second. To be a woman whose wisdom is sought after.  A faithful, gentle, respected, loved and admired Lady of Virtue. To live a Righteous lifestyle and abide by the commandments with joy is ideal. To smile when tears are forming and laugh when an attitude could be present is definitely a gift from God. To remain optimistic despite the disappointment and prayerful when the troubles come rolling in. To display the fruits of the Spirit and isn’t afraid to get to work. To be a woman composed of all 31 proverbs with courage like Queen Esther. A woman who isn’t afraid to offer up an uncensored praise and whose worship isn’t about her but all about submission to God. She expresses her gratitude and loves despite her emotions.

Enough with deeming yourself royalty and a prize just because you’re a female. Yes, we are wonderfully created beings HOWEVER… ask yourself… Am I a benefit to anyone? Is my existence worthwhile? What will be remembered long after im gone? WHAT MAKES ME SPECIAL?? If you don’t have an answer some serious work needs to be done because simply stating that you’re a lady ISNT ENOUGH. we all have vaginas… what dat mind do tho?? we all have these requests and demands but are we what we require?? I want you to think about it and not only just ask God to mold you BUT listen to His instruction!

Every great thing is always under construction.. allow God to break you down and build a masterpiece out of your life.

 

Be blessed. Be beautiful and Crazy in love with Jesus.
     Her

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{Christian Rant} Letters From Her

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What is success?

I want you to take some times and ask yourself…

What does it mean to be successful?

What type of lifestyle are you living to be deemed triumphant?

What have I implemented into the heart and mind of those I come across?

Success to me is appreciating the breath in your body. Being optimistic and having great expectations of the future displays not only just faith but also gratitude for the one true living God. To have genuine love and to be loved sincerely is an accomplishment in its self.

Love creates happiness and honesty leads to the path to prosperity. Having someone, as well as being that person that causes joy provides a sense of comfort. Stability is something that we all are attempting to achieve. To be confident and 100% sure in any given situation is ideal. To wake up each and every morning with a humbled and comforted heart is a goal of many.

We have to stop measuring success by the things we possess, the people we know or the places we’ve visited. We are not to become arrogant, angry or prideful.

Re-evaluate what’s important and ask yourself… what is success??

 Write us back and share your definition of success. We want to hear all about it!

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Keep God first and Be Easy,  
Her.

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{Letters From Her} Searching With My Eyes Closed

Digging in my purse, searching and searching again. Looking in the same places for something that was NEVER there. I can’t tell you why but I KEPT returning to this place where I KNEW there was no solution.. sounds all too bit of familiar doesn’t it??

How many of us have OR should I say is currently feeding into someone or thing that was bad for our entire appetite? Or maybe I should say… entertaining something that shouldn’t have ever gained your attention??
 

We mess up when we seek joy, happiness, peace and comfort in our spouse, friend, job or drug. We strive to feel valued and appreciated. We desire affirming words and quality time that leaves us speechless.

Unfortunately,

we make the mistake of placing our entire sense of sanity into the unstable hands of someone that doesn’t believe in reciprocation. All the love, attention and affection that we provide never seem to make its way back to us.

no boomerang action huh?

BUT what if I told you that I know a man that’ll love you regardless of the pain you drag Him thru?? A man that forgives, redeems and restores love like no other?? He provides a high without dirty urine and grants you peace that no piece of revenge could provide. GOD  can be your everything… IF YOU let Him!!

I listened to Latch by Disclosure & Sam Smith. (Wonderful song sang by a beautiful voice I might add) now to think, if we desired to be with God like we do the people in our lives… what a difference it would make. If we placed Jesus in this song it would display the perfect love story. Anything involving our Father is perfect because it was created by the Father. His love is everlasting!

“Got you shackled in my embrace… im latching onto you”

“You lift my heart up when the rest of me is down”

“I feel we’re close enough … I wanna lock in your love”

YO!!!! If we loved and gave ourself to our creator disappointment would cease and we would be confident in His word.

We have to stop trying to find help when God already provided the answers!!

Stay strong and rooted in His love. He has so much in store for you!

Be Easy,

 Her

{Christian Rant} Letters From “Her”

“You are who you hang around”

. Growing up I’ve always heard my elders say this but never really paid attention to the seriousness of this statement. Along with

“Birds of a flock stick together”

.. I counted it all as chatter … well, until recently. See, who you spend time with has an impact on your thought process, emotions and actions. We tend to hang around what’s comfortable and most friendships are birthed by expressing similar interests.

“Treat others how you’d like to be treated.” Oh this is a good one. All too often we treat people how they treat us instead of being neutral & expressing a general respect for the next person. Treating people how they treat us only results in OUR feeling being hurt. Some of us should be happy that our “friends” don’t treat us the way we treat them. We sometimes use, abuse and abandon our loved ones. However, expecting our friends to love on us, nurture us and care about us unconditionally isn’t fair on their behalf.

Just because you are a very giving & considerate person doesn’t mean that your friend is unappreciative, we all have different love languages. Falling in love with potential is YOUR fault. It’s not fair nor is it healthy to hold someone accountable for what YOU see in them. If your spouse is okay being an employee but yet you think they could be an owner… compliment them on their leadership skills and leave it alone versus bashing them every time they cash a check with someone’s name signed at the bottom.  We fail to realize that we are all very much different and not everyone will be best buds or in the perfect match. Granted, he could be a great person but being great and great for you are two different things. We have to stop getting upset over things we have no dominion over. Let’s put an end to desiring mind control over individuals and accepting who they are and the flaws in their love.

Buttttttttt, I’ve digressed… a little too far.

 Who you hang around and attract is a representation of WHO YOU ARE. We are to be surrounded around individuals that can take us higher and motivate us to push forward when it seems as if we’re being pulled down. If you are an inspiring entrepreneur, it’s probably not a good idea to be surrounded by Paula the procrastinator, Hazel the hater and doubtful Doug. Almost every word that will flow from their lips will be of limitation.

The moment that we realize that we can’t be friends with any and everyone is the moment we take our mind and heart into consideration. It’s perfectly fine to love yourself more than the idea of unnecessary and draining company. Please cut away any and everything that is not helping you produce fruit. Keep in mind that flowers aren’t the only thing growing in the garden.. weeds are there also.

 Be bold in Christ and recognize that your time is the most commodity that you can NEVER  get back. Love yourself and protect your heart above all else.

 

Be Easy,     

Her

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